morning lark ... night owl
introvert ... extrovert
stability ... adventure
planner ... impulse
right brain ... left brain
obedient ... rebellious
I think you get the gist of where I am going.
Why is it that differences are seen as opposites?
Differences can be complements. Two people complementing one another through their unique lenses. Embracing lenses and frames of all shapes, sizes, colors and sounds. Instead of thinking about all the the things we have in common, let's embrace all the things we don't.
It is through the unshared interests that we can test theories, assumptions, boundaries, do things we are not good at, learn, and grow.